Therapy for Bisexuals
Are you met with any of these myths:
There is no such thing as bisexuality
Bisexuality is a phase - on the way to gay.
Men are either gay or straight
Bisexual people are more likely to be unfaithful
You can't identify as bisexual if you've never been in a same-sex relationship
Bi people don't experience any hardship because they can "pass" as straight
If you are with a partner of one gender, you are not bisexual
You are just confused
Sadly many bisexual people are met with some of these myths even in an affirming therapy practice. Bi-invisibility and bi-erasure can make even therapy feel unsafe. You deserve a therapist that is familiar with the experiences of your life. If you are looking for a unique therapist that can understand your unique perspective I encourage you to contact me using the contact form below.
You deserve community
You deserve acknowledgement of all you are in therapy not as a pathway to something else, but as a meaningful full life.
Many see bi-sexuality as a transit zone between straight and gay.
Many misunderstand the connections between echoes of abuse and attractions - the desire for competence and desire - and how you can have both. It takes a knowledgable, accepting, trauma informed and well equipped resourceful therapist to help you sort it all through.
If any of this rings true for you - reach out to me to start therapy today.
Many can't conceptualize the values of a religious faith and bi-sexuality and perhaps ethical non-monogamy. If you need the support to sort this through, reach out to me and start therapy today. =
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David Buechner, MA, MDiv., Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist 162644 working under clinical supervision
Employed by Blackbird Institute, Oakland
Supervised by Eugene Porter, LMFT 19703
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Blackbird Institute (in-person and Online)
444 34th Street
Oakland, CA 94609
Call: 415-390-6367 to schedule a 15 minute consultation
Oakland, CA 94609