Moving from Reaction to Connection

When frustration settles into a partnership, conversations often slip into defensive loops where neither person feels truly heard. In our sessions, we look beneath surface friction to explore the histories, unspoken expectations, and protective reactions each partner brings to the room.

Alongside a psychodynamic foundation, I help partners explore what matters most at their core. We focus not just on resolving conflict, but on listening closely to your deeper values, hopes, and shared sense of purpose—helping you rebuild a partnership that feels intentional and mutually fulfilling.

Who I Work With

I welcome couples across all stages and relationship dynamics, working with straight, gay, and mixed-orientation partnerships.

Office Locations & Telehealth

  • Oakland (In-Person): Offices near Piedmont Avenue and on Pill Hill in North Oakland

  • Throughout California: Secure remote telehealth sessions

Contact me below to schedule a 15 minute consultation.

Connect

David Buechner, MA, MDiv., Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist 162644 working under clinical supervision

Employed by Blackbird Institute, Oakland

Supervised by Eugene Porter, LMFT 19703

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Blackbird Institute (in-person and Online)

444 34th Street

Oakland, CA 94609

Call: 415-390-6367 to schedule a 15 minute consultation

Oakland, CA 94609

david@davidbtherapy.com